Vea The Wonder of Sexuality en espanol

Let it be known to all
that each one of us determines
our onset of sexual experience.
No religion, no parent, no peer,
and often no belief
has the full power to determine
our giving to another or
our taking from another.

For sexuality is the most intense and
pleasurable
of all the human feelings.
Early in life its power often overwhelms
all the “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts”
whether from the uninvolved sexuality of two
newcomers
or
to the depth of intimacy between two Soul-
Mates.

Let the intimacy of a relationship build
as you explore one another;
As you share histories, beliefs, feelings and
phantasies.

However, restrain yourself from the emotional
bonding
which occurs by leaping the chasm of sexuality.
For once the chasm is bridged
the emotional bond increases ten-fold and
backing away leads only to eventual separation
as the chain becomes unlinked.
For relationships always move in a direction
and sexuality is the key to the speed of the
movement.

Once you have found your love and you bond
sexually,
pleasure in the sensuality of each other,
in the passion of each other,
in the ecstacy of each other.        

As you come together listen to the other’s
breath
that it may hasten yours
which in turn may hasten your partner’s
in an ever increasing spiral loop - to the climax,
followed by the fullness of fatigue.

Share in the ultimate physical, mental and
spiritual
bonding
and pleasure each other fully
for this is one of the uniquenesses of the
universe
which will not be experienced in the spiritual
afterlife.

— LCS, jr.
Boerne
March 1985
Laurence C. Smith, Jr., PhD
Photo - Cape Cod 2004
Copyright © 1985-2008 L.C.Smith, Jr., PhD
Music:"Making Love" performed by
Roberta Flack
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