Vea The Wonder of Sexuality en espanol Let it be known to all that each one of us determines our onset of sexual experience. No religion, no parent, no peer, and often no belief has the full power to determine our giving to another or our taking from another. For sexuality is the most intense and pleasurable of all the human feelings. Early in life its power often overwhelms all the “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts” whether from the uninvolved sexuality of two newcomers or to the depth of intimacy between two Soul- Mates. Let the intimacy of a relationship build as you explore one another; As you share histories, beliefs, feelings and phantasies. However, restrain yourself from the emotional bonding which occurs by leaping the chasm of sexuality. For once the chasm is bridged the emotional bond increases ten-fold and backing away leads only to eventual separation as the chain becomes unlinked. For relationships always move in a direction and sexuality is the key to the speed of the movement. Once you have found your love and you bond sexually, pleasure in the sensuality of each other, in the passion of each other, in the ecstacy of each other. As you come together listen to the other’s breath that it may hasten yours which in turn may hasten your partner’s in an ever increasing spiral loop - to the climax, followed by the fullness of fatigue. Share in the ultimate physical, mental and spiritual bonding and pleasure each other fully for this is one of the uniquenesses of the universe which will not be experienced in the spiritual afterlife. — LCS, jr. Boerne March 1985 |
| Laurence C. Smith, Jr., PhD |
| Photo - Cape Cod 2004 |
| Music:"Making Love" performed by Roberta Flack |